Things like helping to chop veggies, set the table, or put away leftovers."

It’s a natural extension of sharing a meal together and shows gratitude for the host’s effort.

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At parties, its nice to step up and help with serving or refilling, Diamond says.

I appreciate a guest that will refill drinks, replenish appetizers, or help serve dessert without being asked.

And light a candle or use the spray if one is provided.

A table set up for a raclette party with a raclette grill, roasted vegetables, raclette cheese, and bread

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You know what I mean.

Bathroom counter with decor and plants.

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